(Note: I changed the title to be more in line with the book’s core message, and to appeal to more people as an information product–sorry, Mark! -D.J.)
Warning: DO NOT Try Another “Pick-Up Line” or “Routine” on Women Until You Read This!
From: Mark Manson, Professional Dating Consultant
Dear Frustrated Guy,
Does this situation sound familiar? Imagine you’re in a public place like a coffee shop. You eye a spectacular-looking girl reading a book at one of the tables….
…Great face, killer body, tight dress that hugs her curves like a semi-truck barreling down a winding country road.
You lock eyes briefly.
99 times out of 100, you’d think “Wow, she’s hot,” and pass on by.
But this time is different.
You’ve read just enough pick-up books and websites to be dangerous.
You quickly scan through your mental file of openers and routines, pick one, take a deep breath, and approach her.
“Excuse me–I need a woman’s opinion on something…” Your mouth keeps moving–it’s all you can do to remember exactly how this routine goes, or you could blow it!
But as you’re talking to her, a funny thing happens:
That sparkle you noticed in her eyes dims. Her body language stiffens, and when you finally shut up and give her the opportunity to reply, she gives you a terse sentence before turning back to her book.
You chalk it up to being “part of the game”–after all, anyone who’s read any standard pick-up advice knows that approaching lots of women is the first key to landing a high-quality girlfriend, or even just getting laid.
A SHOCKING Truth About the Pick-Up Industry
I’m here today to reveal a startling truth.
Are you ready for it?
You’ve been lied to.
If the above scenario sounds familiar at all, you’ve been had. Swindled. Taken advantage of.
That’s because the vast majority of the time, these routines don’t work!
How do I know this? I became one of those very pick-up artists peddling that type of garbage. Then I figured out a much better and more reliable way to attract beautiful, high-quality women TO ME.
The best part? Every, single guy reading this has that SAME capability buried deep within him, ready to be unearthed RIGHT NOW!
A Nerd Becomes A False Prophet
I used to be just like you. To a lot of people, I must’ve seemed like a pretty “normal” guy on the outside. I wasn’t a genius or a top athlete by any stretch–I was happy to play Halo just like anyone else.
Until it came time to talk to girls.
“How hard can it be?”, I thought. After all, some of the guys I knew had a ton of success with the ladies. More than anything else, I wanted to be like these “naturals,” with their effortless charm and ability to seemingly attract women at will.
So to get there, I would have to do something that might seem absolutely terrifying to you:
I had to start approaching girls.
Unfortunately, to that point, the only advice my family and friends had given me was “brilliant” stuff like “just be yourself” and “treat her like a princess.”
My head was a jumble of emotions and anxiety. I chickened out more than a few times back then.
The couple of times I did muster up enough courage to put my awkward old self in front of a group of ladies, I could only muster a meek “Hey” or “How’s it going? I’m Mark.”
I kept at it out of sheer determination–I was going to get a girlfriend no matter what.
Persistence Pays Off…For a While...
And I did. She was (I thought), a perfectly nice, somewhat attractive girl. Let’s call her “Jessica” for our purposes.
Needless to say, back then, I was happy to have any girl want me, since I thought, deep down, that I didn’t even deserve that. I didn’t deserve the love of another person.
When she wanted me, and showed me affection, I was hooked:
I was in love.
Sure, Jessica and I fought some, and of course we had our differences, but I thought that was just a natural part of being in a relationship.
To make up for these fights, I started showering her with flowers and gifts, thinking that those would SURELY patch things up between us.
After all, we were in love…right?
I kept on thinking that everything was rosy…
Until the day I caught her cheating on me.
I was a wreck. Where had I gone wrong? I thought I had been the perfect boyfriend, and that still wasn’t enough for her?
I couldn’t think straight. After a few dark nights crying into a permanently-damp pillowcase, I decided to make a big life change.
It was the very same decision that you likely made, that led you right here:
I was going to actually become one of those “naturals” with hot chicks that I had admired so much growing up.
It wasn’t an easy transition. For 2 ½ YEARS I read every cheesy “pick up” book I could get my hands on. I put their lessons into practice, approaching thousands of women in the Boston area.
And you know what? I got pretty good at it. I was able to project confidence like I was a movie star on the red carpet, flashing a million-dollar smile, and attracting insecure (if beautiful) women who bought the act.
I was a pick-up artist, a player. I juggled multiple girlfriends at once.
In short, I was living the dream.
Or so I thought…
How I Started Picking Up Women For OTHER Men…
After a while, I came to a startling realization that I’ll share with you in a minute. It was an incredibly powerful and profound concept that will cause you to rethink how you interact with ALL women, especially the high-quality ones.
Before I do, though, it might help to give you a better idea of how I came to understand it. After a while, news of my exploits started making its way around Boston. Pretty soon, other guys started hiring me to help them pick up beautiful women.
At first, I couldn’t believe it. After all, I was just the Average Joe whose girlfriend had cheated on him, remember? I started off way worse off than where you are right now, and now other guys were paying me to help them get better with the ladies?
But as I took on clients, and they started using my techniques and methods to find success with women, I eventually found myself running a full-time business as a guy who helped other guys pick up women.
Even as I continued to help my clients get laid, even as I kept churning through beautiful women at an incredible rate, I found myself asking a deeply troubling question:
“Is this IT?”
I had gotten to the point where I had internalized all of the routines, all of the “negs,” responses for all of the tough “shit tests” that women would put me through.
Like I said before, I could project confidence like a pro athlete at the top of his game, and pull down all of the emotionally-unstable women with low self-confidence that I could handle.
But at the end of the day, that’s all it was:
I had become a really, really good actor around women, and I was teaching my students to do the same.
But acting isn’t living! If you have to put on an act around a woman to keep her around, have to put her down with false “negs” or puff out your chest and act like an “Alpha Male” all the time, you have to keep the act up constantly, or she’ll be GONE, faster than you can say “false confidence.”
The Value of Courage
And so we come back to that major, life-changing realization that I told you about a while back. I’m going to warn you, it might shake you up a bit, and leave you rattled for a couple of days as you try to figure it out for yourself.
Are you ready for it?
Here it is:
Despite approaching thousands of women over many, many years, I was still a coward.
I lacked the true confidence, the bravery to speak my mind, no matter how dark, crass, or “inappropriate” that may sound at first, their reactions be damned.
The Secret to TRUE CONFIDENCE With Beautiful Women
It was perhaps the most powerful, world-jarring concept I had ever considered.
After all, the “advice” I had always been taught growing up was that women were “special snowflakes” and “princesses,” the “fairer sex” not interested in bawdy or dirty jokes.
In a weird way, there’s a small amount of truth to that: SOME women are like that.
But here’s another secret: the women that YOU are interested in will share YOUR sense of humor, will laugh at YOUR jokes, and will mesh with YOUR personality.
The difficult part (or so I thought) was FINDING these women, and having the absolute courage to weed out the bad ones early. More on that in a minute…
The Pick-Up Artist Rebooted
So I tore everything down and rebuilt myself AGAIN.
Gone were the routines, the clever lines and retorts.
In their place, I started doing something completely radical:
I spoke my mind.
I started dealing out brutal honesty, both to others and myself.
Imagine my surprise when I started not only attracting more women, but also more of the types of women that I truly connected with, as well–my dream girls!
Even weirder, when I started employing these new techniques with my students, they started making deeper connections with beautiful, compatible women as well!
These guys were having more meaningful relationships than they knew what to do with. In fact, their problem often came down to choosing which girl was right for them!
It was like I was the shepherd boy who had found the dingy old lamp and rubbed it until the genie emerged.
Qualify Women Early, On YOUR Terms
Not that it was pure magic. In order to create this entirely new philosophy of picking up women, I had to rethink some hard truths about who I was and what I wanted.
I developed dozens of techniques and ideas to do just that. For example, consider my concept of “polarization.”
It doesn’t have anything to do with making things really, really cold–rather it’s a way to instantly determine which women are too stuck-up or otherwise unreceptive to you so that you don’t waste your timewith them.
By engaging in polarizing behavior early and often, you’ll quickly learn:
- The three types of women you’ll come across, one of which you absolutely should not talk to if you want to maximize your chances of finding “The One.”
- The six secret indicators of her interest in you that can help you take things to the next level with her, from leaving her friends to hang out with you, to the types of touches she’ll give you if you really get her going.
- A tried-and-true method for avoiding the dreaded “Friend Zone,” as well as for not wasting time on married or attached women.
- The one simple strategy to overcome crippling social anxiety. Here’s a hint: it’s not a pill or a potion. Do this and you’ll find yourself looking forward to being surrounded by groups of gorgeous women for the opportunities that you’ll have!
How To Become The Most Interesting Man She’s EVER Known
And that’s all just when it comes to polarization! Like I said before, there are dozens of these techniques that I came across that you won’t find anywhere else.
That’s because most of the other so-called “pick up artists” out there work from a theory of “false confidence,” where they merely get their students to act like a confident, well-developed man.
I can teach you to actually become a confident, well-developed, interesting man.
Are you brave enough to learn how?
I’m happy to show you.
Because this is such a seismic shift in consciousness and understanding…
Because I had to completely rebuild my own view of myself from scratch…
Because this took months of painstaking time and effort talking to beautiful women in all sorts of locales…
I decided to write a book.
It’s a (literally, in this case) game-changing text that can take you from being an average, frustrated guy struggling to get a date to a confident, interesting man in a matter of weeks.
I call it Big Brass Balls: Ditch Your Fear and Become a Sex God
It’s a easy-to-read, no-B.S. book detailing ALL of the powerful secrets I’ve uncovered to transform yourself into the kind of guy you’ve always wanted to be:
The charismatic natural who communicates with women on his own terms.
The guy who has his pick of women that he finds attractive…and how to redefine “attractive” in a way that ensures that you’ll never settle for a substandard woman again!
Don’t Just Take My Word For It…
Here’s what a couple of recent readers said about it:
“[Big Brass Balls] is the framework upon which all other pickup advice should be based. Rather than a compendium of routines and lines, Manson’s book encourages the reader to cultivate a rich and attractive lifestyle. This approach, when applied effectively, makes meeting and attracting women almost automatic…this book should be required reading for all young men.” -Andrew Hedges
Wow. This book is among the most powerful, enlightening, inspiring, and motivating books a man struggling with a less-than-satisfactory dating life could read. I laughed, teared up, and even approached women while reading this.
Gentlemen, no review you read on here will do this book justice. Read it for yourself. It costs as much as a few beers at a bar. Stop wasting your time. -Tanner Mann
Just imagine walking into that same coffee shop, but now you have a slight smirk on your face…a face that’s now oozing out confidence. Without a thought, without even a hint of fear, you stride right up to that stunning “10,” unfazed, and start chatting her up.
Her lip trembles, she starts fidgeting and playing with her hair. You can tell she’s thrown by your masculine energy, but in a good way. You decide to polarize her with some dark humor and she laughs. Before you know it, and without even asking her, she hands her number TO YOU!
Too unbelievable? I might think so, too, if I hadn’t personally seen it hundreds of times now, with men all over the world!
One Weird Thing You Can Expect After Reading Big Brass Balls…
If you take the step-by-step, complete system I lay out in Big Brass Balls to heart…
If you let me take you by the hand and guide you toward the best expression of yourself…
If you have the courage to disregard everything you’ve been told about women, and to put my lessons into practice…
Then you will start to notice something pretty weird:
Women will start to treat you MUCH differently!
You’ll get more random smiles and women stopping to talk with you, completely unsolicited.
As you get even braver and fully embrace my lessons, you’ll start having women qualify themselves to you!
You will be in complete control of yourself, whatever room you’re in, and how others around you perceive you.
Why Settling For An “Average” Woman Could Be THE BIGGEST MISTAKE OF YOUR LIFE!
A recent study found that as many as 73% of married people decided to “settle” on Mrs. Good Enough instead of finding a beautiful, dynamic partner that truly completes them.
That means almost three-fourths of people in marriages right now are deeply, profoundly unfulfilled on some level.
Do you know why this is?
I’m going to tell you why.
Are you ready?
Here it is:
These men are so utterly lost because THEY LACKED THE COURAGE TO FIND THEIR TRUE SOULMATE.
These men lacked the courage to approach more women.
They lacked the awareness and responsibility to become their best and highest self.
They lacked the bravery to polarize these women early and often, and instead fell into a “comfortable” rut.
It begs the question: are you looking for “comfortable?” Are you fine settling for “average?”
Do you want your life to be merely “okay,” a nice stretch of 80 years or so that has you passing through without making any meaningful connection with a sheet-steaming, sentence-completing, beautiful woman?
Do you want to settle for an “alright” woman, like I did with Jessica, and be rewarded by catching her one day with her legs wrapped around another guy?
If so, Big Brass Balls might not be for you.
But if you constantly strive to better yourself…
If you feel deep down in the darkest parts of your soul that you deserve the best out of life…
If you’re tired of average, sick of being afraid of hot women, fed up with all of the lines, routines, and B.S. that get you only averagegirls….
Then you absolutely need this book, right now!
The Cold, Hard TRUTH
I’m going to be completely honest with you: Big Brass Balls isn’t some sort of “magic pill” that you take once and immediately notice women lifting their skirts and spreading their legs as you walk down the street.
By now, I’m sure you realize that such a “magic bullet” doesn’t exist.
These types of claims are the “snake oil” that the charlatan Pick-Up Artists out there sell by the caseload.
No, what Big Brass Balls is, though, is a PROVEN system that will get you results with women, provided you follow the extremely easy, step-by-step plan that I lay out for you in detail.
You will find yourself developing courage you thought you could never find in a million years.
You will start to notice that you’re getting more attention from women–first the “6”s, then the “7”s, “8”s, “9”s, and yes, those mythical “10”s.
You will disqualify boring, stuck up, or disinterested women quickly and efficiently without even thinking about it; after all, that just means that you’re closer to finding “the one” (or more!) for you.
Here are some more examples of the mind-blowing concepts you’ll find inside Big Brass Balls:
- The 3 Fundamentals–three absolutely key principles in which a man can find his inner truth, and become more confident.
- Entire chapters called “How to Be Attractive” and “How to Be Charming,” chock full of pages upon pages of secrets I’ve developed, honed, and refined to help put you in the top 10% of men who approach women with only a few simple changes to what you’re already doing.
- A step-by-step plan designed to take you by the hand and guide you through the dating minefield, all the way from getting her number to making her squeal with delight in the bedroom…again and again…
- 6 Levels of increasingly difficult challenges designed to get you to conquer your fears, develop your inner courage, and become the best man you can be.
How To Silence That Annoying Inner Voice Holding You Back…
Look, I know better than anyone else that you probably have something deep down inside you–some awful, horrible lie that you’ve convinced yourself of–that’s keeping you from attracting more women to you right now.
It’s probably something completely superficial–something like, “I’m too short,” or “I’m too fat,” or even “I’m too ugly” to attract the real stunners–the “10s” out there.
Let me ask you this, though…
It’s a powerful question that could very well shake you to your very core.
Are you ready for it?
What does the fact that you’re even asking these kinds of questions say about YOU?
Think about it–you’ve seen plenty of men with these very same characteristics that you lament with extremely attractive women.
Think even harder: don’t these men always seem to be the “life of the party,” quick-witted, confident, and utterly sure of themselves?
How do you think they got that way? By moping around, convincing themselves of ridiculous statements about themselves, never finding the courage to approach women or become their best selves?
No, of course not! Somewhere along the line, with years and years of trial-and-error and effort, they slowly learned the secret to true confidence.
The very idea that you still hold these false notions about yourself as some of your deepest, most defining beliefs means that you need a dose of courage–a dose of TRUE CONFIDENCE–even more than ever!
This is THE Book You’ve Been Waiting For
The best part is that because of all of the hard work that I’ve put in, because of all of the rejection I’ve suffered, because I found my own true courage, and have helped thousands of other men just like you find theirs, I can offer you something very valuable:
Cut through all of the B.S., all of the trial-and-error, and start developing your own true confidence today through the Big Brass Balls step-by-step plan.
Filled with tried-and-true, tested secrets for all different kinds of men that you can tailor to your specific situation.
A complete system to shed your fear, to transform you from that soft, formless lump of clay that you currently are into an angular, well-defined statue that women can’t help but admire.
The product that could have beautiful women noticing you and practically begging you to talk to them in a matter of weeks!
The BIG Question
Now, at this point, you probably want to know, “How much is this going to run me?”
Before I tell you, let me ask you this: how much is all of the knowledge within Big Brass Balls worth to you?
What would you pay to have dozens, maybe even hundreds of high-quality, stunning women fighting each other to have the pleasure of speaking with you?
How much would you spend to make sure that you never “settled” for an average woman? To cultivate your inner courage and bravery so that you’d never think twice about approaching any woman you found attractive ever again?
It’s tough to put a price tag on that kind of true, deep happiness. Tough to say “I’d pay that much for love, that much to be the object of so many women’s desire,” isn’t it?
Big Brass Balls is yours today for only $12.95. Think about it: that’s less than buying a drink for yourself and some marginal, stuck-up woman at a bar these days.
But then again, like I said before, it’s tough to put a price on true love, to put a price on that look of pure desire in an attractive woman’s face as she undresses you with her eyes.
So now it’s up to you. I’ve done the hard part. I put all of these secrets into a single, jam-packed book. I’ve laid out the roadmap for you to become a true sex god.
You have to take the next step.
You can keep on shuffling along, getting “lucky” with a sub-par woman once-in-a-blue moon. Maybe even getting “lucky” enough to “settle” for one of these “okay” women down the road.
Where’s that going to get you? Trapped in an unhappy marriage? Sighing as you trudge off to work each day, fully understanding that you’re completely stuck? Forced to provide for an “okay” partner who doesn’t do it for you in the bedroom any more?
Does that sound appealing at all?
If not, then you can take action now! Start surrounding yourself with smart, funny, attractive women…go beyond those tired old “lines” and “routines” that simply don’t work…
Start building your future with the woman of your dreams today.
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Thanks, and here’s to taking your life to the next level,
P.S. Remember, this book gives you everything you need to demolish your fear, increase your inner courage, and sleep with more attractive women. If you have the courage to take the leap down the rabbit hole, there’s no telling how this might help you in areas beyond picking up women…